Posts Tagged ‘am not so wise’

無論如何

September 1, 2010

似懂非懂是我常說的,朋友們可能也覺得我說的是 “似是而非”。一切道理都要經過體會,未到那個年紀有些就是不能明白,這是廣東話的"唔化"。”化” 了就明。

據說以下是 Mother TeresaParadoxical Commandments 改成的,看化了其實就不需要好似煲呔一樣看紙仔來提醒自己,情緒控制當然不容易。

經常說很少會做到死,通常是被激死。

我近年在工作崗位(對外或對下而已)就是無論如何想講就講,只因知道工作壽命有限,今天不說還待何時? 明知對方不想聽,聽了或許不會同意,即使同意表示同情也未必行動(明知行動了又如何?),無論如何: 先說為快。正如退休首席法官退休時說問心無憾。

對上就 … 唉 … 因尚未做到"海納百川, 有容乃大, 壁立千仞, 無欲則剛",這個嗎 … 只有多吞口水,少說多做為妙!

People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway.

Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.

Never too old to show off

May 9, 2010
We say never too old to learn, to show off it's also never too old, see Janey Cutler here.

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Moving house again!

March 25, 2010
For a number of reasons (I didn’t plan this) I’m moving house again.

I gave it a try of importing content from another site into WordPress dot com end of last October.   I had a very old free site sfong15 dot WordPress dot com.    Import wasn’t successful (only 993 imported), I got some php error.    I then registered a brand new empty site notsowise dot wordpress dot com to have another go at importing.     My content, consisting of about 1,300 entries, was a file less than 12Mb.    Again it failed (only 942 imported).

In both attempts I got onto support but at the end nothing was done to my satisfaction.

Last night I tried again, registered a site was359 dot wordpress dot com, imported 1,318 entries (around 12.7Mb, right time to do this as import limit is 15Mb), horray I got all entries imported.

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Next step after above was mapping of my domain to here.    I didn’t want to map the one I want first so I used a spare name as experiment.   Steps were:

  1. Login Godaddy changed DNS serveres pointing to wordpress dot com nameservers
  2. Created a subdomain he.was359.net and forward it to was359.net
  3. Add domain mapping in dashboard here
  4. Then I had to pay $9.97
  5. Select the newly added domain and click ‘update primary domain’.

For the first hour or so nothing happened and I got ‘site not found’.    I pinged the new domain name it did point to the correct IP address.    In order to speed up the process I then deleted the record in Slicehost dot com (the VPS I’m using for all my sites).

I later found whenever I want to amend anything on this domain mapping wordpress dot com will prompt me to pay again so I wrote to support.   Support then said

….don’t have to pay again to change a domain mapping upgrade within 30 days of purchase, but we need to help you do that from support…

Fine, I feel better.    So very soon I’ll be moving am dot notsowise dot net here.

The above would not be possible if I wasn’t able to export content from Habari to WordPress.

I run therefore I think

October 24, 2009

Before the end of the first year our Professor asked us what additional subjects or curriculum we think would be helpful. I said Law and Psychology. Very soon they have this double degree programme. These studies are training mentally. If I’m asked again I would propose to add mandatory PE lessons for EMBA students. Am I nuts, these people aren’t primary school boys and girls what’s the point have Physical Exercise lessons?

I suggest they are all coached for long distance running, at least for 10k or even marathon, during the course of 2 years. Please don’t leave this page yet although you must be thinking that I’m total out of my mind.

People enrolling to programmes like this are supposed to be busy executives spending long hours at work, those who can squeeze couple of hours each week attending class are considered lucky. Finding few more time slots each week for training would be a challenge to their time management skill. Not possible you said? Come on, if there is a will there is a way!

Reasons are pretty simple and straight forward if you follow these

  • without sound body, bright minds just won’t deliver good work (there are exceptions of course)
  • you have PE lessons in primary, secondary and sports are encouraged in University, for what reasons you can refuse to attend mandatory PE lessons here?
  • alright you said you do lots of other sports, e.g. golf (when was the last time you skipped networking/entertainment/eating/drinking after a game of golf?), but running is different keep reading
  • the philosophy behind running, something can’t be taught in class, something must be experienced mentally on the track

I have been running for short distance for couple of times per week, 3 to 5k, recently I managed to do close to 10k. The state of mind to run longer distance is quick different, it isn’t just about physical strength, it’s a lot more than just controlling your stride and the form of how you run. It’s a training of the mind.

Along the scenic route I normally run there are lots of elderly people in the morning. Everyone running on that route overtakes me except those with a stick or with maid helping them enjoying the breeze and birds singing. That’s quite an impact mentally at first seeing people older, fatter or clumsier running pass me. Now I know people can’t be judged by their outlook, what can I do with that?

Nothing, just keep running at my own pace that I could manage.

I then realize, thinking from a positive angle, that people overtaking aren’t actually doing the same thing that I was doing. The fat lady may be just doing her first km and that guy older than me could be a marathon veteran or even a professional coach?

Never mind keep running at my own pace! For me I need also to watch my heart rate while controlling the pace.

At work we hate to see our competitors overtaking us but are we all running the same race? I don’t think so. In business we have to be careful about our financial strength it’s like making sure my heart is doing well and not overstressed. There are no 2 runners in a race with the same physical conditions, why do we compare? Some do good in sprint some enjoy long distance, we are all unique individuals. Some companies have KPI for annual performance some may have visionary targets. I could recognize a few faces that I see once in a while but there are also a few that I come across every time I run. Some enterprises exist for hundred of years some survived only for a few decades. Some run with good form some are obviously beginners who will have to learn with pain like I had before. I can see that injuries setback are inevitable, C’est la vie!

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Know your strength keep on running at your own pace!